Fastcgi not working

Cannot seem to get fastcgi working using ubuntu 12.04 LTS and urbackup version 1.3.2
Followed the docs and added a symlink to my ssl document root i included some of my default-ssl file below just to confirm

[quote=""]ls -l
total 4
-rw-r–r-- 1 root root 177 Oct 5 2012 index.html
lrwxrwxrwx 1 root root 21 Mar 6 02:51 urbackup -> /var/lib/urbackup/www[/quote]

<IfModule mod_ssl.c>
<VirtualHost _default_:443>
            DocumentRoot /var/www
        <Directory />
                Options FollowSymLinks
                AllowOverride None
        <Directory /var/www/>
                Options Indexes FollowSymLinks MultiViews
                AllowOverride None
                Order allow,deny
                allow from all

I installed libapache2-mod-fastcgi from multiverse and have the following lines inmy /etc/apache2/modules-enabled/fastcgi.conf

AddHandler fastcgi-script .fcgi
#FastCgiWrapper /usr/lib/apache2/suexec
FastCgiIpcDir /var/lib/apache2/fastcgi


FastCgiExternalServer /var/www/urbackup -host

but i always get this error in my browser

[b]SSL connection error

Unable to make a secure connection to the server. This may be a problem with the server, or it may be requiring a client authentication certificate that you don’t have.

Here is the only warning in my apache logs but i think CA is ok since it is self signed right?

[Thu Mar 06 03:54:39 2014] [warn] RSA server certificate is a CA certificate (BasicConstraints: CA == TRUE !?)